As the Director of Tupelo Music Academy, a professional saxophonist, and someone who grew up in a church and musical family, I’ve had countless conversations with parents who say, “If they’re not practicing, I think we should stop lessons ” I understand the frustration. But I also know firsthand that consistent exposure to music—not just daily practice—can be the difference between a child quitting and a child thriving.
My Own Story: From Reluctant Student to Professional Musician
If you had looked at my childhood practice habits, you wouldn’t have guessed that I’d become a professional musician playing across the tri-state area, the U.S., and even Bermuda. The truth is, I didn’t always want to practice . I simply attended my weekly lessons ,had band and church 2 x a week . Ok i get it i had little more to work with . but from a lessons stand point i absorbed what I could. From a numbers standpoint, let’s break it down:
- 48 lessons per year
- Each lesson lasting 30 minutes
- That’s only 24 hours of music instruction in an entire year
That’s the equivalent of just one full day of dedicated learning spread out across a year. And yet, here I am, leading Tupelo Music Academy, helping students find their passion for music.
To be honest, I didn’t always want to practice. Some days, I was pushed to do it by my mom. Other times, I forced myself to get through it. And sometimes, I simply had to be accountable to my teacher to pass off my music—so I had no choice but to work on it.
The Spark Happens in Time
One of the most profound lessons I’ve learned as both a musician and an educator is this: just because a student isn’t practicing today doesn’t mean they won’t start practicing in 3, 6, or even 12 months.
Motivation comes in waves, and the spark can be lit at any moment—from a friend’s encouragement, a movie, a song, or even a viral video. The key is exposure and consistency. Had my parents pulled me out of lessons due to a lack of practice, I never would have played in church, in a band, in college, or in studio sessions. Music would not have become the defining force in my life.
Lincoln’s Work Ethic: A Lesson in Commitment
This Presidents Day, I can’t help but reflect on Abraham Lincoln’s legendary work ethic. He taught himself law by reading books under candlelight after long days of labor. He didn’t become one of history’s greatest leaders overnight—it was through consistent effort, resilience, and a commitment to the long game.
The same principle applies to learning an instrument. Music is a skill built over time. It’s not about quick results—it’s about steady progress, persistence, and the belief that the effort today will pay off in the future. Just as Lincoln didn’t see instant results from his studies, young musicians may not see immediate breakthroughs. But if they stick with it, their skills and confidence will grow exponentially.
A Parent’s Role: Patience and Commitment
Parents, I encourage you to shift your mindset when it comes to music lessons. This is not a quick trip; it’s a long journey. If your child isn’t immediately motivated, that’s okay. Your role isn’t to demand perfection—it’s to provide steady encouragement and allow room for growth.
Here’s how you can best support your child:
Commit to at least 8 months of lessons. Growth takes time, and quitting too soon can rob your child of a potential lifelong passion. Don’t expect daily concerts. Learning music isn’t about instant results; it’s about gradual improvement. Resist the urge to get in a frenzy if they aren’t practicing. Trust the process. You should start seeing small signs of progress within 8 months. Communicate with the teacher. Regularly check in before or after lessons to understand your child’s progress and struggles. Encourage a musical environment at home. Play music in the house, attend live performances, and let your child explore different styles and instruments.
At Tupelo Music Academy, we are committed to nurturing students through the ups and downs of learning an instrument. Music is more than a skill—it’s a lifelong journey of confidence, discipline, and self-expression. Stay patient, stay committed, and watch the transformation happen.
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In the spirit of commitment and perseverance, we’re offering a FREE trial lesson to families who call us by February 21. Give your child the gift of music and set them on a path to success!
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